This is a selection of the insults that have been traded in public and private following MuslimMatter’s article on Tarek Mehanna’s arrest. Unfortunately, this name-calling isn’t something that appeared with the publication of MM’s article (which has now been taken down) but has coloured arguments between the two sides for a while now.
Both sides are responsible for this bad behaviour but the bulk of the name calling quite clearly comes from the anti-MM camp. An MM guy would typically call people on the other side “despicable”, and the other brothers will return the favour with interest by calling him a “despicable sellout donkey” (sometimes monkey).
I wanted to comment on this name-calling from a number of different angles and mainly my words are addressed to the anti-MM brothers.
Cursing & name-calling is just bad character
A few hadith:
The Messenger of Allah said “When I was taken up to heaven I passed by people who had nails of copper and were scratching their faces and their breasts. I asked: ‘Who are these people, Gabriel?’ He replied: ‘They are those who were given to backbiting and who cast aspersions on people’s honor.’
‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr said, “It is not fitting for a believer to be a curser.”
The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was asked, “Messenger of Allah, invoke a curse for us against the idolaters.’ He replied, ‘I was not sent as a curser. I was sent as a mercy.’”
Think tactically
The bad language of brothers is used as a smokescreen to avoid addressing the valid criticisms and arguments coming from the “anti-MM” camp. It is my firm belief that if the insults were to be stopped the MM guys would be forced to sit up and address them directly, or neutral readers would very quickly see for themselves where orthodox Islamic positions are really being presented.
A foul-mouth is a big turn off anyway. There are people in the middle who might be willing to listen to both sides but would immediately be turned away from the side from which the name-calling is coming. What i’m saying is that name-calling is really shooting yourself in the foot if your hope is to get people onto your side of the argument.
Name-calling is not how we remember our people of knowledge
What are people like Ali al-Timimi remembered for? After being insulted repeatedly for years and years, no one could have blamed him if he had turned to his attackers and started slagging them off. But did he? Or is he a man known for his knowledge, patience and good character?
Big-X culture
One of the characteristics of the salafi-publications lot is that once they labelled someone “off the manhaj” the guy became cast out and despised forever. As though a big-X was put next to his name. So how ironic is it that you find some critics of SP exhibiting similar behaviour? For example, the fact that Tawfique Chowdhury was one of the first people to criticise MM’s article on Tarek is completely lost on those who have had it in for him since he wrote his hugely controversial article last year.
It shouldn’t be the case that we’re operating some sort of 3-strikes and you’re out policy where a brother makes a mistake or a few mistakes and then becomes the target for constant abuse, and everything of good that he does afterwards is disregarded because of his past mistake(s).
Another irony would be if the response to this article was along the lines of “upholding the truth by attacking the deviants” because that is exactly how spubs explain their own actions.
What is your end goal?
What is the point of arguing and debating with people? Is it to establish the truth or just to insult the person in the wrong and validate yourself?
Focussing on an individual
The dumbest thing you can do when you hate someone is to offer them your good deeds – the most precious commodity you have. I’m happy to admit that there is someone i hate (offline) quite alot. But i restrain myself from talking about him because if I say something out of turn about him (and when you get angry that is bound to happen) I will end up putting a big smile on his face on the D/Judgment when he is allowed to take some of my good deeds or leave some of his bad deeds with me. This is probably the most frustrating type of loss you can imagine.
Consider the good deeds that you have earned in supporting brothers like Tarek, and the good deeds you have earned when financially supporting the families of Muslim prisoners. Do you feel safe that your loose tongues won’t land those good deeds into the scales of the very Muslims who you believe are in major error?
When Aisha radiallahu anha took the mick out of Safiyyah’s height, the Messenger of Allah said: “You have said a word which would pollute the sea if it were mixed in it.”
And some of know that what is being said privately in emails and online is going far beyond making a joke of a person’s height.
I do not intend with these comments to gloss over the fact that I and many other Muslims are concerned that for all the good articles that MM put out, when they get it wrong they get it seriously wrong. In particular, issues relating to al-walaa wal-baraa keep on coming up. The name-calling of the anti-MM brigade is a smokescreen that can be used to avoid addressing these issues for only so long.
I’m not against debate but what I’m hoping for is for people to respect certain boundaries when debating. A good example of this is Imam Anwar’s response to a controversial article by Sh. Tawfique. The original article is here, and you can see Imam Anwar’s response here.
Despite being quite scathing of the content of Tawfique Chowdhury’s article, what is notable is Imam Anwar’s constant referral to Tawfique as Shaykh Tawfique. Furthermore, Imam Anwar appears to show his own dislike of pointless verbal attacks when he comments in his next post:
“I try to maintain a level of freedom with the least degree of censorship on this site. So criticism of individuals including myself is generally allowed. But man some people are just plain cruel! I would therefore advise all my brothers and sisters who post comments to show restrain and offer constructive criticism when they do.”
If that is an attitude befitting a man like Imam Anwar who represents a specific strand of Islamic thinking today, i think its also befitting for those who look up to him.
Finally, rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said:
Do not boycott one another, do not turn away from one another, do not hate one another and do not envy one another. Be, O slaves of Allah, brothers.